Our cuckold life

We decided to make the bull-hotwife-cuckold restiionlhap a reality after a long time of playing it out in fantasy. We are an extremely happy and tight couple that protects each other’s heart. We communicate constantly. This is us together playing the fantasy out with a bull , dom , lover , alpha-male or whatever label you apply.Jack thrives off the humiliation. The key for us is he absolutely needs to be involved. If he just sits and watches, Kissy sees he is bored and thus becomes bored as well. It really takes the bull to understand the dynamics and know how to coordinate playtime, and it’s not just the playdates. It’s the orders the bull gives Jack prior to the date, like having to buy condoms and tell the clerk they are for his wife’s lover, or buying panties for himself to wear, taking pics of Kissy in lingerie so the bull can choose what outfit she will wear that night, etc.Kissy communicates with her lover on the side and she helps the bull planning so he has some ideas as well as understands limits.Jack gives up his seat at the bar when the bull arrives and kisses Jack’s hotwife in front of everyone whom just saw Jack intimately close with Kissy. Jack buys drinks. Kissy wears her garters and anklet, etc. and knows that the more she enjoys her lover, the more turned on Jack is this is very important.Jack folds her lover’s clothes when he undresses, sucks her lover’s cock to get him hard, licks her lover’s balls and shaft while he is inside of Kissy. Jack always cleans up her lover’s cum.It is NOT demeaning as it is Jack’s biggest turn on and it is he who had to convince Kissy of these desires, and had to convince her that he would not be jealous or insecure.Also know that it’s not a one night stand. This is a long term restiionlhap. Trust is developed. There are occasional Kissy & lover meets, for quickies or blowjobs at lunch, but only when Kissy sees that her lover wants the cuckold to be involved, where 80% of the time we are all together.For us it’s not about the bull stealing the wife. There are some cucks that actually desire that, to eventually lose his wife to another man, even though he loves her. That is the most extreme. For some it is the wife playing alone all the time with the bull. For some it is the hubby just watching the whole time. Different degrees of cuckolding for sure.We found ourselves unable to swing swapping partners. Kissy does not want to see Jack with another woman. Jack only wants Kissy. It could happen with the right couple, but the chances for jealousy and insecurity increase with that dynamic for us.When we find the lover that clicks with us and understands the dynamics, it is simply the most amazing restiionlhap.Not everyone can understand the restiionlhap, but we respect all types of restiionlhaps and hope this article and comments can help others understand cuckolding a bit more.-Kissy and jack